Cheryl Cole to stand by husband Ashley Cole despite cheating rumours
Girls Aloud star Cheryl Cole has vowed to stand by her husband Ashley Cole despite claims he cheated on her.
Earlier in the week, hairdresser Aimee Walton claimed she had sex with the drunken Chelsea and England star after meeting in London nightclub in December and now a glamour model, Brooke Healy, has claimed she also slept with Ashley, just months after his lavish marriage to Cheryl. Brooke told the Sunday Mirror that she had sex with Ashley after a Christmas party in 2006 and was paid £6600 to keep quiet about it to protect his reputation.
But despite the initial rumours that she was planning to leave the footballer, Cheryl has told the News of the World that she intends make her marriage work.
She told the newspaper yesterday: “When I married Ashley I made my vows and promised we’d be together for better or worse. This has to be the worst it gets.”
“I’m astonished that girl [Aimee] says she felt sorry for me. If she felt so sorry why did she run to the papers to try and ruin my marriage? I hope she’s happy with her first designer handbag that she can buy with her dirty money.”
“I’ve been through an emotional roller coaster but I’m determined to be strong. Ashley’s a wonderful husband and we ARE in love. I won’t let this woman destroy our marriage.”
Cheryl went on to reveal that Ashley had admitted meeting Aimee as soon as it happened: “He told me, ‘Something happened last night but I was so drunk I don’t know what.’ I was furious, furious that he didn’t know what had gone on and that he’d put himself in that situation.”
“All he could remember is his friends leaving him upstairs with this girl and him being so ill that he was sick and she was putting a bucket under his head, looking after him.”
“His mates had said the girl was going into the kitchen and getting cloths to clean up because he was totally out of it. They were downstairs and thought he’d be fine. I saw the sick over Ashley’s clothes, he was covered in it. I was fuming with his friends for not looking after him themselves.”
“OK, Ashley was stupid to put himself in such a vulnerable and ridiculous position. But his friends should have protected him. I’ve seen with my own eyes the way women flirt and try it on with footballers. I was so angry, so frustrated that Ashley couldn’t remember what on earth had gone on apart from him being sick.”
“It was the worst night of my life [when he told me]. I was angry and I didn’t know the full story of what happened. I just couldn’t believe that he couldn’t remember anything. I asked, and asked, and asked but still he said he couldn’t recall a thing that had gone on. He kept telling me he couldn’t but I couldn’t believe that.”
“As Ashley rarely drinks and is usually so careful, I asked if he thought somebody had put something into one of his drinks. But he said he didn’t know. It was like banging my head against a brick wall. I didn’t want to eat or sleep, I just felt drained and hurt and scared.”
“I’ve always said that if anything happened with another woman I would leave - and I knew I’d have to face up to that reality if he really had cheated.”
“But the next day I calmed down a bit and then took a few more days to let what he’d said sink in. Ashley is not a big drinker, I knew that and I was shocked about the state he was in. It’s so not like him. I never really thought it could be the end because we ARE married and I realised there’s no point saying your vows then walking out on a whim.”
But the singer doesn’t believe he had sex with Aimee as she claims: “That’s utter rubbish, I know that for a FACT. I know Ashley intimately. When he’s under the influence he ISN’T capable.”
“When I heard what this girl had said I realised she’d made part of the story up. Obviously I felt sick to the stomach. What woman and wife wouldn’t? And to be honest I felt humiliated and crushed that this girl was saying these things and people were believing it.”
“Things were made worse when my family and friends started calling and offering support. I had to tell them that Ashley had told me about a drunken night and I’d kept it a secret for nearly two months.”
“I’d only told my mum. I adore the girls from the band but I hadn’t even told them. It was something that Ashley and I had to get through together.”
“We’ve spent so much time together, talked and sorted things out. So I was devastated when this girl came up with all this and tried to make out it was something it wasn’t.”
“I feel like I’m living in a nightmare and I don’t know if people will allow me or Ashley to forget it. I hope they do. My friends have been brilliant. The girls from my band have all been so supportive.”
“I don’t want anybody to be angry with Ashley or to judge him - that’s my job as his wife.”













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# kayleigh on January 28th, 2008 at 1:33 am
Right where can I start-Cheryl you can f**king better then your cheating husband and i agree with Gary Tweedy about the tart he had supposed
off sh**ged,second i think the slag did to get money out of him,third you’re right in giving him a second chance as the sayin goes everyone deserves a second chance no matter what they did wrong,but once he cheats he’ll cheat again,so if it happens Chez you should f**king divorce him,but he will probaly settle down when you have kids,I hope.the support you had for the girls and Victoria Beckham is BRILLIANT
and I mean it and if she did feel sorry for you
she wouldn’t of bedded him.I bet her mother is really proud of her daughter and when ashley returns to football,i hope all the Chelsea fans boo and the team that chelsea play boo him and I am not nasty and I am NOT JOKING,I’M SERIOUS,Chez I really do feel sorry for you,but if u do divorce,one piece of advice-STAY SINGLE,but i know you will know what’s best for you,well at least he confessed the whole thing through his tears,the night it happened.
Unlike some footballers who what until the story leaks on to the front page of the tabloids.Good Luck Chez and I know you’ll do what’s best for you.You may be opioniated,but you are a nice person to talk to,if you’re wondering what i meant-back on 25th August 2005
Girls Aloud did a singing in Birmingham of their ninth single Long Hot Summer and i’m not boasting.
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# Emma on January 28th, 2008 at 11:15 am
I cannot believe that Cheryl is niave enough to believe Ashley didn’t have sex with this nasty little scrubber who lets face it is no moe than a cheap hooker!
Cheryl - dump him, you can do so much better, the guy is a creep and a lying creep at that!
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# Sarah on January 28th, 2008 at 3:22 pm
I live opposite ashley’s old flat which he had supposedly sold. Well he hasn’t and guess what this is not the first girl he’s been unfaithful with. I’ve seen him on numerous occassions with tarts going into his old pad. Cheryl’s too good for him but I know she doesn’t want to throw her marriage away but didn’t Ashley do that himself when he started being unfaithful!
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# Freyja Walker on January 28th, 2008 at 4:18 pm
All I can say is I understand Cheryl standing by her man, if he has done anything wrong that is, everyone does deserve a second chance but infidelity is not an easy thing to get over if you can ever get over it, Cheryl obviously loves her husband and she should be granted privacy at this difficult time, the press don’t help, over speculation, there both human at the end of the day and Cheryl has her own values and morals and her own mind, people should respect her decision whatever it may be, she is a younf beautiful woman with her whole life and career ahead of her, all i will say is that once trust is broken it can be hard to grt it back but you can work through it if both of you want it enough, the last thing i will say is if Ashley has cheated then he shall have this on his conscience if he isn’t honest about whatever has happend if anything has, he is the one that has to live with himself, people will judge and point the finger because thats what people do to people in the spotlight, I am sure Cheryl and Ashley know’s this comes with the teritory.
As for the women who sold her story, I feel sorry for her, if her words are untrue then I am sure theres something missing in her life and this is a very cheap and nasty thing to do to make a few quid, the money won’t last long love, why don’t you get a job and get your roots done whilst your at it, you being a hairdresser and all.
Take care Cheryl, we all know you aren’t daftm just be honest with yurself and follow your heart.
All the best xx
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# Summer on February 2nd, 2008 at 1:33 pm
You know, this makes me really sad to read because I have been in exactly the same situation myself. And i dont mean being a WAG and one of the countries most famous singers!
I mean, being in a relationship with someone you love and *think* you know better than anyone in the world. Your best friend and lover who knows you more intimatley than anyone.
When i found out my partner had betrayed me, I was devstated and shocked and i still couldnt believe it, much like Cheryls reaction. He gave me excuses and was begging me to stay and couldnt live without me. I stayed thinking the same thing as her - that i didnt want to “throw away” our relationship and years of friendship. So we gave it another go and a year on, I find myself in the same situation, saying the SAME thing - “how could he do this to me?”.
When you love and trust someone and they look you in the eye and are begging, saying that something has or hasnt happened - every part of your being *wants* that to be true.
Most of the time your intuition, or gut instinct - or whatever you want to call it, *knows* whether that person is lying. I went against my intuition, i chose to believe him because he was so convincing and because he was “different” and i thought he could never in a million years lie or betray me.
Everyone has intuition - it is probably the only thing you can rely on because, as sad as it sounds - you cant rely 100% on anyone else, not even your so called “soul mate”.
Who knows whether he is telling the truth, but this situation is far too familiar to me for me to think the best - which is what I would have done maybe 18 months ago. Whatever happens, everyone will learn a lot from it……
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# kez on February 6th, 2008 at 12:01 pm
cherly it nothing to do with anyone else if you love him and you trust him then you stick with him! and ashley if you love cherly then treat her right and for f**k sake look at her you couldn’t do much better!! and stay away from slappers there’s enough of then about!
good luck both of you!
kez xx
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