Reese Witherspoon & Jake GyllenhaalIt looks like Ryan Phillippe isn’t the only one annoyed by Reese Witherspoon and Jake Gyllenhaal’s increasingly serious relationship: his ex-girlfriend Kirsten Dunst and his mum Naomi Foner are both less than delighted about the coupling.

Kirsten and Jake dated for around two years after his sister Maggie Gyllenhaal introduced them in 2002, then had a further year of on-off dating until finally splitting in December 2005.

A friend of Kirsten’s told Star magazine that the Spider-Man star had always hoped she and Jake would reconcile and start a family together when their professional lives calmed down: “[So] hearing that [GyllenSpoon] are close to getting engaged is like a knife to her heart.”

“Seeing photos of him out with her kids is just too much [for Kirsten] to handle. She always thought she and Jake would reunite, but now those dreams have faded.”

Jake and Maggie’s mum Naomi is also far from delighted about the union. A source close to the family told the magazine: “Naomi is concerned Jake’s taking on more than he can handle dating Reese, even playing the role of daddy to 8-year-old Ava and 4-year-old Deacon when he’s with them.”

“[Naomi hoped] Jake would find a younger girl to date, without so much baggage.”