What is this? just because the father shares his bed with the children, he is being accussed of child abuse. It is the abyss many women stoop to, to justify the custody of children.. The typical men are drunkards, child abusers, careless ba***rds. After the divorce it is very probable that the men are rendered penniless, deprived of the right to raise children and advertise the brand of a child abuser, so that people see them as predators. More and more men today are joining the marriage strike and rightly so, because if the current legal system prevails it is better not to marry and repent for life.